Yes, it is bad. As much as I want to share his brilliance and compassion with the world, I know that once he makes that connection with someone's sick parent, it is easily hrs less of our family time, and he won't even be treating them. This is especially true when you are around others. In the Garden of Eden, Eve may have introduced sin into the world, but ultimately her actions worked out for good because it allowed all of us to be born and tested in this telestial state. I'd just like to add that unless you're happy being with her as a full believing Mormon, don't stick around in the hopes that she'll de-convert. I have been a doctor's wife for 1 year now and we've been together for 7 years. Looking back, I can say that when I received this answer to my prayers, I was at one of the most spiritually high moments of my life.
I wish you all well on your recovery from this particularly vile church. He will not be permitted to bless the child in front of the ward, for instance, so you will have to choose to forego that ritual or find someone else to stand in for the father, which he may not be comfortable with. I don't mean to be rude, but she's not gonna give up her "nonsense". Its been over a year and I don't know what to do. But what I discovered surprised me.